These are letters to Jack, my son, and my daughter, Audrey. You have given me the gift of motherhood. This is just a little gift back. I want to share my experiences with you of your childhood from my perspective of watching you grow - of being your Mom.
Friday, September 28, 2007
Meer Dogs
Tonight I was watching an episode of Meerkat Manor. What's that you ask? Well - it's a show on Animal Planet about a family of Meerkat's in the Calahari and their daily fight for survival. The dominant female, Flower, has been the head of the family they follow in the series for the past four years and she's been fantastic to watch.
In the last episode, she adopted the baby of a rival family of meerkats although they usually destroy litters of competing families babies. She let this one live and was distracted looking out for it when they ran across a cape cobra that escaped into the burrow where her own litter of offspring were hidden.
Flower followed to battle the snake and was fatally bitten and died.
Okay - I was very swept up in the emotion of this and started crying.
You looked at me and then at the TV and declared "Mommy crying."
I said "Yes, honey, Mommy's crying. Mommy loves Meerkats."
and, just like that, you showed your current state of having to disagree with me about everything:
"Not Meerkats, Mommy! Meer - DOGS!"
Really? Did you really just say that?
Yes, you did.
Love,
Mommy
Sunday, September 23, 2007
Riley-Bug
There is a cute little girl in your class that you seem to butt heads with. Her name is Riley and she is a formidable toddler opponent because she is not averse to fighting dirty.
Basically, Riley bites.
I've received a couple of accident reports from the teachers in the room and you are very quick to identify the perpetrator. "RILEY BITE!" you will exclaim while holding out your arm for boo-boo inspection.
Well, the other day we were outside playing when some mosquitos were bothering you. You told me "ouch, Mommy!" and I said "yes, a mosquito bit you. Mosquitos are bugs that bite people."
You thought about this and concluded "RILEY BUGS!"
Oh, crap.
"Yes, they are bugs that bite like Riley."
Hey - she started it!
I just can't look her parents in the eye anymore.
Love,
Mommy
Saturday, September 22, 2007
Mommy Bloggers Unite!
Today I invited myself along on a playdate with my sister, Erin and her friend Kelsey in from out of town. Both Erin and Kelsey write blogs of their own staring their little ones - your cousins Calum, 1.5, and Emmett, the teeny tiny baby - and Kelsey's 3.5 year old daughter, Harper.
But, at about 6:45PM last night, we had just finished dinner and Daddy walked in and you were so excited, you were wriggling like a puppy and exclaiming over and over again "DADDY HOME! DADDY NOT WOOKING! DADDY HOME!" while I tried to get you out of the highchair as fast as humanly possible. You ran to Clay and put your arms around his neck and said "I miss you, Daddy!" and tears came to my eyes and all the frustration was gone because I know what you had been saying all day.
I missed him, too!
It's good to have Daddy home!
Love,
Mommy
Tuesday, September 18, 2007
Fever
Monday afternoon I got a call from your school that you were vomiting and I needed to come and pick you up. I bee-lined to your school and there you were looking pitifully pale and hot and I scooped you up and we left.
We explored the Children's Zoo, the Insectarium, checked out the sea lions and the gorillas, road on the Merry-Go-Round TWICE AND walked by the bears. After that we got in line for the train and you started burrowing your forehead into the curve of my neck and I could feel you getting warm. I asked you if you wanted to go home, but you said "no". I figured we would be good to ride around the park once before leaving.
Anyway, by the time we got to the Doctor's office, you were feeling a little better from vomiting, but your fever was still 103.3. Because you weren't lethargic, we had you checked out and found the beginnings of an ear infection so now you are on antibiotics and Tylenol for the fever and I'm feeling run through the wringer with worry and silliness for blowing this out of proportion, but what a relief to think that you'll be better this time next week.
So - here's my latest bitch. In this day and age, wouldn't you think it would be possible to come up with an antibiotic that you don't have to forcefeed 1.5 teaspoons of TWICE A DAY through flailing arms, kicking legs and gritted teeth until a whole bottle is gone? It just seems like someone could come up with a more concentrated formula - a better solution. Something you could mask like a crushed up powder mixed into some applesauce. Just about anything would be better, in my opinion....
So, the fever scare is over and I'm staying home with you till you are better, but you really got my heart racing today with that high fever!
Love,
Mommy
Sunday, September 16, 2007
Charlie's Baptism
Today was Charlie's baptism. We didn't actually go to the baptism itself since the timing was RIGHT at your naptime and I figured my brother, Lisa and the rest of the family might actually want to hear the blessed event and maybe even themselves think which simply wouldn't have been possible if we had gone.
We DID make it over to Matt, Lisa and Charlie's house for the party afterwards.
You ran about with your cousin Calum and Uncle Brett kicking balls around outside with a cookie in your hand for almost the entire visit.
Then, Grandma Mary announced it was time for a group photo with all the boys and babies.
The ensueing drama was worth it's weight in gold to be honest with you. Here's the results of the picture taking fiasco:
Mommy
Saturday, September 15, 2007
Work Picnic
Today we went to a picnic for my work. I usually blow these things off, but that was last year when you were younger and wouldn't have been able to participate and before that - I didn't have kids and that's really what these events are for.
Mommy